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"I saw the wonder on his young face as the life drained out of him, and I thought, Oh my God, he's one of mine!" (Page 162)

This quote describes the moment when she sees a young freedom fighter get shot down while on a religious retreat with the Christian Cultural Group. This is the moment that ignited her passion to contribute to the revolution. By comparing the young man to her son Nelson, she had the epiphany that all the people who were fighting for the freedom of the Dominican Republic were her "Children." Here, the motherly instinct Patria was described as having as a young girl comes back stronger than ever. Having this epiphany while witnessing the death is what shaped her into the more empathetic and fierce woman she became in her later years.

"On the third day, He rose again" (Page 200)

Her experience pursuing becoming a nun even though not fully finished it was a big part of her upbringing. One of the biggest parts that led to who she becomes is the influence of her husband and protecting her children.

"That moment, I understood her hatred. My family had not been personally hurt by Trujillo, just as before losing my baby, Jesus had not taken anything away from me. But others had been suffering great losses…" - Patria (Alvarez, 53)

Yes, she always put her family first. She gave up on becoming a nun to start a family and was deeply affected by the death of one of her children. Even after joining the revolution, her sisters and the family she started were still her number one concern, sending things for Mate and Minerva in prison, going to visit her husband regularly, and going out of her way to get her son Nelson released.

"Take me instead, I'll be your sacrificial lamb." - Patria (Alvarez, 203)

Some of the religious people she was close to while she was young like her mother influenced her to go down a religious path. In turn, it was also her religious beliefs that influenced a lot of her decisions later on in the story. Sometimes she viewed her faith as a guide (saying she had 'divine inspiration' to name some of her children as she did) while other times she had to do things she felt were going against her faith (like choosing to start a family over becoming a nun or joining the revolution despite her own beliefs that the deaths she witnesses are intended by God).

I would say Patria was a good mother to all of the children she took in. Just by taking in her sister's children and caring for them just as her own when she needed to makes her a more involved mother than they were. Towards the end of the book when she has lost everything, she is still fulfilling her motherly role, complaining about the "hair in [Noris'] eyes"(200) and bringing her crying child "to [her] bed"(201) to comfort him. A sign of a good parent is someone who can support and comfort their children even in the face of uncertainty.

Patria's life greatly affected by meeting Pedrito on page 48, deciding ultimately that "[she has] heard"(49) that it was right to marry him moving away from her dream of becoming a nun. The next biggest event in Patria's life is seeing the young boy get shot on page162. Seeing a boy her sons age get killed makes her decide that she can't "sit back and watch [her] babies die"(162).

Patria was born "hands first, as if reaching up for something" (pg. 44) and then always put others first, thinking that she would become a nun. It was joked about that she was born knowing what she would become, even scaring her mother, so she went to the convent. She did everything that was required of her, and then some, to even be considered by some of the other nuns there o become a nun herself. However, that idea changed when she was helping wash feet on Holy Thursday and she fell in love at first sight with a man. She then got married before 17. Then, she later gave birth to a still born baby and then saw a man die on a religious retreat. It was these events that truly shaped her to be who she was, as without them she would have become a nun and only prayed during the revolution.

"I got braver like a crab going sideways. I inched towards courage the best way I could, helping out with the little things." pg 155

"I put my hands up against the glass to remind her that she, too must reach up for the things she didn't understand."

pg 45.

I would say that Patria is a good mother as she puts her children above herself. They are the reason that she decided to join the revolution, as after she watches the man die after the bombing (pg. 162) and sees him as one of hers, that it hits her that her children are in trouble. With this knowledge, she joins the revolution, which in turn leads to her death. She literally sacrifices her life for her children, so I do believe that she is a good mother due to this.

"I'm not going to sit back and watch my babies die, Lord, even if that's what You in Your great wisdom decide."

 

pg. 162

Was Patria a good mother? Support yourself.

What did Patria specifically add to the revolution?

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What events in Patria's life influenced the woman she became?

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